How to Help Your Child Through the Terrible Twos

14 Mar How to Help Your Child Through the Terrible Twos

The “terrible twos” can be a challenging time for both parents and children. During this phase, children are learning to assert their independence and develop their own sense of self. While it can be a difficult time, there are things you can do to help your child through this phase.

1. Stay Calm: When your child is having a tantrum or refusing to cooperate, it can be easy to get frustrated or upset. However, staying calm and patient can help diffuse the situation and show your child that you are there to support them.
2. Set Boundaries: While it’s important to allow your child to explore and make their own decisions, it’s also important to set clear boundaries. Let your child know what behaviors are acceptable and what behaviors are not.
3. Offer Choices: Giving your child choices can help them feel more in control and reduce the likelihood of power struggles. For example, let your child choose between two options for snack time or playtime.
4. Use Positive Reinforcement: Rather than punishing your child for negative behavior, try using positive reinforcement to encourage positive behavior. Praise your child when they are cooperative, polite, or well-behaved.
5. Stick to a Routine: Establishing a routine can help your child feel more secure and reduce anxiety. Consistency can help your child know what to expect and feel more in control of their environment.
6. Be Patient: Remember that this is a phase and it will pass. Be patient and supportive of your child as they navigate this challenging time.

At Continuum Pediatrics, we understand the challenges that come with raising a toddler. If you have any concerns about your child’s behavior or development, please don’t hesitate to contact us. We are here to support you and your child every step of the way.